before the words run out of my mind

For me, it's easy to 'don't care what other people say la' maybe because it sorta like became a personal habit to me.

Not that I have many critisms to take (Okay now that I'm not pretty sure about) but it's just one of those family upbringing stuff where my mum always says in malay, "Jangan tegur, nanti lame-lame dorang dah malas nak kacau..."

I guess it's true in a way because frankly speaking, sometimes disturbing, teasing, naming and critising people is so much fun. Getting to see the different reactions you'll get from the victims and all that, and don't tell me you've never done it before in your whole life! Moving on, so when you take out the fun just by being that oh-so-boring victim, staying still and very quiet, they will eventually stop. I can assure you on that and maybe that explains why I'm pretty much patient as well. It kinda like puts me to my advantage.

"Eh alamak, Shalih tak fun la... Jom kiter kacau orang lain!"

But if you decided to be someone who will complain or gets angry when being provoked, well I'll just say good luck to your future ah. I'm mean it's just a simple case of 'being childish together with the bullies'. Take the matter by being mature, serious. Take deep breaths, count to ten, chill and relax. Things will be just fine after.

So you've seen movies about how small children face up to their bullies by kicking their ass so that they'll never bully them again? Oh I'm so sorry to disappoint but somehow that doesn't work in reality. If you do that, they will continue to provoke you, and this time, behind your back as well!

"Ah haa Shalih, muke macham taik! muke macham taik!"
"DIAM AH! Kiter bilang cikgu eh..."
(Silence)
"AAAH HAAAAAA SHALIH, MUKE MACHAM TAIK!!! MUKE MACHAM TAIK!!!"

So yeah. I think you've got the points. Just really don't worry about it la. Well to make you feel any better, I can say that if you stay cool and be cool, The Big Guy up there in the heavenly skies will deal your trouble sooner or later. Yeah.

Cheers.

"I don't know whether you were referring to me but yeah, I'll always be by your side. Forever and ever, Babe."